Bullying and Harassment against my gender

TheD0C_Of_Negatives · January 25

Today I was playing mcoc and chatting in global, when I had mentioned I was transgender during a conversation. Several people jumped into the conversation (which they had no reason to do other than just to be pricks) and started harassing me. (Screenshots provided, which were all I could get. Most of the messages got tagged for obvious reasons) I don't have many, but I can provide several other things they said which personally offended me.

"You're a 40 year old pedophile

"You need your hard drive checked"

"You need to be @slaughteredandmurdered"

"I #### stomped"

Among other things. Now I tried to be patient, and didn't decide to report the person(s) until they legitimately started going too far. I don't mean to be sensitive but there's only so much a person can take.

ahmynuts · January 25

Nacho98 · January 25

Genuinely curious, not trying to be a d***. What prompted you to state your sexuality in an in-game chat of a marvel fighting video game?

ahmynuts · January 25

Nacho98 said:
Genuinely curious, not trying to be a d***. What prompted you to state your sexuality in an in-game chat of a marvel fighting video game?

Trek26 · January 25

Nacho98 said:
Genuinely curious, not trying to be a d***. What prompted you to state your sexuality in an in-game chat of a marvel fighting video game?

I was wondering the same. But I will never understand the mind of someone that goes to global to chat in the first place

Agent_T · January 25

Couple things. First, sorry that that was your experience. Truly.

Second, that’s global for you. Doesn’t excuse the issue at hand. People are just crappy. Not sure what Kabam will do for you though unfortunately.

PT_99 · January 25

Not only you tried to get attention by mentioning it in global chat for no reason,
Now you're trying the same on forums as well??

Darkclaw01 · January 25

I was in chat, reading through most of what was said. OP isn't exactly innocent. Both parties are in the wrong, but Global is unfortunately the wild west.

willrun4adonut · January 25

Darkclaw01 said:

I was in chat, reading through most of what was said. OP isn't exactly innocent. Both parties are in the wrong, but Global is unfortunately the wild west.

Giving Bendy a run for his money on forum detective of the year I see.

TheD0C_Of_Negatives · January 25

👁️🫦👁️

Crcrcrc · January 25

Darkclaw01 said:

I was in chat, reading through most of what was said. OP isn't exactly innocent. Both parties are in the wrong, but Global is unfortunately the wild west.

would love to know how OP can explain this one away

TheD0C_Of_Negatives · January 25

Quite honestly I did it for moral reasons, not for much of attention. Yes, I'll agree, it does look attention seeking on my part but this is me trying to address a serious issue that Kabam refuses to address at all. Most of the **** that happens in global happens exactly like this; but all Kabam does is ignore it half the time or ban the wrong people. I'm not trying to say I didn't start things because I honestly do sometimes. It was mad weird that I mentioned my sexuality, yes, and I wasn't exactly innocent either. Still; this isn't the first time I've seen encounters like this. Take it the wrong way if you want to, I don't care. I was just doing my part.

kvirr · January 25

well I’m baffled.

Like others have said, why even promote yourself in that way? do people not have self respect?

It’s gonna be a good weekend. I can already see this thread blowing up over the next 2 days. I look forward to being part of it ALL.

PT_99 · January 25

As suggested by @Darkclaw01

OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

That's next level of victim behaviour.

Darkclaw01 · January 25

If Kabam had spent dedicated time managing the global chat, most of the chat would be gone. I think anyone who has entered Global at any time regardless knows that people have said some very odd things. I've personally caught people saying things that surely would be ban able. I've also seen people get around the censors by simply putting the "@" in front of what they try to say. The best thing to do is block, report, and move on. Or if you don't really care to read chat you could always disable global chat.

dee_jay5 · January 25

Folks, just get out of global. It’s like a whole different world there. Disable it permanently from your game settings.

KDoggg2017 · January 25

How to MCOC.
Step 1) Download the app.
Step 2) Disable global chat.
Step 3) Enjoy.

startropics · January 25

upcoming:

8 global chat bans
4 in game bans
13 threads complaining about being banned and that extra complaint is a random dude who modded necropolis

TheD0C_Of_Negatives · January 25

PT_99 said:
As suggested by @Darkclaw01

OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

That's next level of victim behaviour.

Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.

TheD0C_Of_Negatives · January 25

I have better things to be ashamed of.

kvirr · January 25

TheD0C_Of_Negatives said:
Quite honestly I did it for moral reasons, not for much of attention. Yes, I'll agree, it does look attention seeking on my part but this is me trying to address a serious issue that Kabam refuses to address at all. Most of the **** that happens in global happens exactly like this; but all Kabam does is ignore it half the time or ban the wrong people. I'm not trying to say I didn't start things because I honestly do sometimes. It was mad weird that I mentioned my sexuality, yes, and I wasn't exactly innocent either. Still; this isn't the first time I've seen encounters like this. Take it the wrong way if you want to, I don't care. I was just doing my part.

just doing your part..? In what regards? Trying to traumatize kids ? You do know that this is a KIDS game right, It just so happened young adults and others not so young play it more then actual kids, yet my global I’m sure is filled with 14 yr olds. You had NO reason to say what you said other than looking for attention and maybe a bit of a pick me up on confidence.

@PT_99 couldn’t have said it better tbh, OP is the reason why people disable global. There is good people in global, yet there’s people like OP that make it so much worse then it should be.

TheD0C_Of_Negatives · January 25

kvirr said:
well I’m baffled.

Like others have said, why even promote yourself in that way? do people not have self respect?

It’s gonna be a good weekend. I can already see this thread blowing up over the next 2 days. I look forward to being part of it ALL.

Read what I just told the other guy.

kvirr · January 25

TheD0C_Of_Negatives said:

PT_99 said:
As suggested by @Darkclaw01

OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

That's next level of victim behaviour.
Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.

Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting

Edit : fyi, I’m not supporting the other party even though it may seem like I am, they were just as wrong as OP, nothing to do with how OP lives their life, but they are just slightly more wrong to me, just clearing that up because I’m re-reading what I said

willrun4adonut · January 25

Darkclaw01 said:

TheD0C_Of_Negatives said:

PT_99 said:
As suggested by @Darkclaw01

OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

That's next level of victim behaviour.
Excuse me? Victim Behavior? For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.

I'm pretty sure they're talking about this part for being ashamed, not your original post. In case you missed that.

TheD0C_Of_Negatives · January 25

kvirr said:

TheD0C_Of_Negatives said:

PT_99 said:
As suggested by @Darkclaw01

OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

That's next level of victim behaviour.
Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting

Whatever you say man. I'm not gonna argue with someone who wasn't even there. However I'm not gonna say I DIDN'T do anything, but Im saying I should be the only one to take full responsibility. As someone else posted both parties were wrong. And if you have a problem with how I handled things, why even reply at all? It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?

TheD0C_Of_Negatives · January 25

willrun4adonut said:

Darkclaw01 said:

TheD0C_Of_Negatives said:

PT_99 said:
As suggested by @Darkclaw01

OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

That's next level of victim behaviour.
Excuse me? Victim Behavior? For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
I'm pretty sure they're talking about this part for being ashamed, not your original post. In case you missed that.

Oh. Forgot I said that. 😶‍🌫️

GroundedWisdom · January 25

PT_99 said:
Not only you tried to get attention by mentioning it in global chat for no reason,
Now you're trying the same on forums as well??

This is more of the same ignorance, and it doesn't contribute anything to the conversation. This behavior is disgustingly inappropriate, and just because Elon has opened Twitter to these types of comments and President Convicted Felon has made an executive order against the people in the community, doesn't mean that the rest of the world will accept that type of disrespect. MCOC has ALWAYS been an inclusive space, and it will remain that way.

OP, Global is an ongoing effort to keep clean. I would suggest disengaging and reporting them with the Support function, then letting go of the outcome. It's the Internet, and you can run into people who are ignorant. I'm sorry someone was directing that at you.

TheD0C_Of_Negatives · January 25

TheD0C_Of_Negatives said:

kvirr said:

TheD0C_Of_Negatives said:

PT_99 said:
As suggested by @Darkclaw01

OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

That's next level of victim behaviour.
Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting
Whatever you say man. I'm not gonna argue with someone who wasn't even there. However I'm not gonna say I DIDN'T do anything, but Im saying I should be the only one to take full responsibility. As someone else posted both parties were wrong. And if you have a problem with how I handled things, why even reply at all? It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?

Shouldn't. I meant shouldn't. Autocorrect.

TheD0C_Of_Negatives · January 25

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captain_rogers · January 25

Revealing my gender identity (especially when I'm lgbt) is the last thing to do in a online forum.
☠️

Op you can't change the world. Save your mental health by keeping stuff like this to yourself. Kabam will ban these guys but new ones will keep on coming. I'm not victim blaming but protect yourself.

PT_99 · January 25

TheD0C_Of_Negatives said:

kvirr said:

TheD0C_Of_Negatives said:

PT_99 said:
As suggested by @Darkclaw01

OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

That's next level of victim behaviour.
Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting
It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?

What heat of moment make a person say, "I'm going to eat cookie's cookie." Or how you "love to blow 4 at once?"

Bullying and Harassment against my gender

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