Bullying and Harassment against my gender

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  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73

    Revealing my gender identity (especially when I'm lgbt) is the last thing to do in a online forum.
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    Op you can't change the world. Save your mental health by keeping stuff like this to yourself. Kabam will ban these guys but new ones will keep on coming. I'm not victim blaming but protect yourself.

    In hindsight I probably could have worded my post better, but honestly I don't think there's going back. At the same time I'm not trying to risk my account; people should be more aware about this. I also wasn't intending for this to pop off, but it did. Sooo... Apologies if I made it seem like I was playing a victim.
  • captain_rogerscaptain_rogers Member Posts: 11,010 ★★★★★
    PT_99 said:

    As suggested by @Darkclaw01

    OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

    But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

    That's next level of victim behaviour.

    Elon brain rot is the only thing to keep away from minors
  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73
    PT_99 said:

    kvirr said:

    PT_99 said:

    As suggested by @Darkclaw01

    OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

    But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

    That's next level of victim behaviour.

    Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
    Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting
    It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?
    What heat of moment make a person say, "I'm going to eat cookie's cookie." Or how you "love to blow 4 at once?"
    The post, you idiot. Besides 'im gonna eat cookies cookie' isn't remotely sexual, I was talking about cookies. Now the other one I did on purpose.
  • GroundedWisdomGroundedWisdom Member Posts: 36,770 ★★★★★
    edited January 25
    The OP is NOT attention-seeking just because they're pointing out that someone was being inappropriate. Nor are they doing it because they're discussing being Trans, or any identity thereof. This is just as abusive as someone being directly transphobic. People have the right to speak on how they identify, and telling them to keep it to themselves is just plain shaming.
  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73
    kvirr said:

    kvirr said:

    PT_99 said:

    As suggested by @Darkclaw01

    OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

    But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

    That's next level of victim behaviour.

    Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
    Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting
    Whatever you say man. I'm not gonna argue with someone who wasn't even there. However I'm not gonna say I DIDN'T do anything, but Im saying I should be the only one to take full responsibility. As someone else posted both parties were wrong. And if you have a problem with how I handled things, why even reply at all? It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?
    well here goes the back and forth…



    1, your practically attention farming, which is socially unacceptable no matter who it is, same as clip farming is viewed as annoying in a entertainment world.

    2, heat of the moment excuse honestly is stupid, because you were promoting yourself way before they said anything about your sexuality, the statement “I like 4 at once” or whatever you said, wasn’t in the heat of the moment. It was prior to that while you were talking about how you wanted to do things with “cookie” ( who for all intents and purposes could be a minor, just pointing that out )


    3rd final point, you claim how we are throwing accusations, while not knowing the full story, yet you fail to provide the full story..? Once again warping the content of the conversation to make it seem as if you were the attacked, and not the attacker. You instigated it, and atleast you admit it. Props on that I guess, since there’s not much props to be given to you about anything on this situation, I’ll give you that.

    Okay, you want the full story? Well I'm not giving you it because no matter what I say you're already on a specific side, so why waste my time?
  • GroundedWisdomGroundedWisdom Member Posts: 36,770 ★★★★★
    Right. So don't talk about it? So if someone asks if you're a boy or a girl, that's acceptable to answer, but not if you're Trans. Is that the idea?
  • kvirrkvirr Member Posts: 1,307 ★★★★

    kvirr said:

    kvirr said:

    PT_99 said:

    As suggested by @Darkclaw01

    OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

    But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

    That's next level of victim behaviour.

    Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
    Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting
    Whatever you say man. I'm not gonna argue with someone who wasn't even there. However I'm not gonna say I DIDN'T do anything, but Im saying I should be the only one to take full responsibility. As someone else posted both parties were wrong. And if you have a problem with how I handled things, why even reply at all? It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?
    well here goes the back and forth…



    1, your practically attention farming, which is socially unacceptable no matter who it is, same as clip farming is viewed as annoying in a entertainment world.

    2, heat of the moment excuse honestly is stupid, because you were promoting yourself way before they said anything about your sexuality, the statement “I like 4 at once” or whatever you said, wasn’t in the heat of the moment. It was prior to that while you were talking about how you wanted to do things with “cookie” ( who for all intents and purposes could be a minor, just pointing that out )


    3rd final point, you claim how we are throwing accusations, while not knowing the full story, yet you fail to provide the full story..? Once again warping the content of the conversation to make it seem as if you were the attacked, and not the attacker. You instigated it, and atleast you admit it. Props on that I guess, since there’s not much props to be given to you about anything on this situation, I’ll give you that.

    Okay, you want the full story? Well I'm not giving you it because no matter what I say you're already on a specific side, so why waste my time?
    This is why I specifically pointed out in an edit on a previous post how I was not on either side, because the other party is just as wrong.


    with that said go ahead and provide the full story, since it’s clear that it isn’t ok what the other party did.
  • JessieSJessieS Member Posts: 1,588 ★★★★★
    Report them and report the people who will inevitably act horrible in the forum as well . There is no place for hate
  • GroundedWisdomGroundedWisdom Member Posts: 36,770 ★★★★★
    I'm getting a bit worked up here because it's a subject that's dear to me, being a member of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community (Lord I can't remember anymore.), and it's a very sensitive subject given the current state of the U.S.
    In any event, we're in Canada and here people have the right to be free and identify in a respectful space, and the same goes for MCOC. Having said that, it's also important to be appropriate on all sides, so a good rule of thumb is to keep things light.
    Just try to respect each other. We're all here because we love the game, or Marvel, or both.
  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73
    PT_99 said:

    PT_99 said:

    kvirr said:

    PT_99 said:

    As suggested by @Darkclaw01

    OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

    But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

    That's next level of victim behaviour.

    Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
    Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting
    It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?
    What heat of moment make a person say, "I'm going to eat cookie's cookie." Or how you "love to blow 4 at once?"
    The post, you idiot. Besides 'im gonna eat cookies cookie' isn't remotely sexual, I was talking about cookies. Now the other one I did on purpose.
    Now not even admitting your fault??
    Still trying to dodge it?

    So according to you, one can find if a person is male or female by eating ACTUAL BAKED COOKIE of that said person?

    How delusional you want to be?
    You know it, I know it, everyone know it what you meant by expressing your desires of "eating cookie's cookie"

    Plus you also called me idiot
    You'd like if I use some words of mine? Or you'd make another post about it? 😃





    Oh that's real nice, ****. Seriously? Are you that ignorant?
  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73
    edited January 25
    I never said I wasn't taking the blame, but now you're just deflecting my point and why I even reported this in the first f@#cking place
  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73
    PT_99 said:

    PT_99 said:

    kvirr said:

    PT_99 said:

    As suggested by @Darkclaw01

    OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

    But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

    That's next level of victim behaviour.

    Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
    Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting
    It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?
    What heat of moment make a person say, "I'm going to eat cookie's cookie." Or how you "love to blow 4 at once?"
    The post, you idiot. Besides 'im gonna eat cookies cookie' isn't remotely sexual, I was talking about cookies. Now the other one I did on purpose.
    Now not even admitting your fault??
    Still trying to dodge it?

    So according to you, one can find if a person is male or female by eating ACTUAL BAKED COOKIE of that said person?

    How delusional you want to be?
    You know it, I know it, everyone know it what you meant by expressing your desires of "eating cookie's cookie"

    Plus you also called me idiot
    You'd like if I use some words of mine? Or you'd make another post about it? 😃





    Also, your claim doesn't hold any actual evidence of me being sexual: you're just adding sh#$it in order to make you seem superior. Eating A COOKIE has nothing to do with sex. You're dirty minded.
  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73
    Folkvangr said:

    Right. So don't talk about it? So if someone asks if you're a boy or a girl, that's acceptable to answer, but not if you're Trans. Is that the idea?

    If someone asks me in a game chat my gender, I would ignore it and move on, and im pretty sure most people would do the same
    It was an entirely different situation, but I agree with you to some varying degree.
  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73
    PT_99 said:

    PT_99 said:

    PT_99 said:

    kvirr said:

    PT_99 said:

    As suggested by @Darkclaw01

    OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

    But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

    That's next level of victim behaviour.

    Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
    Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting
    It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?
    What heat of moment make a person say, "I'm going to eat cookie's cookie." Or how you "love to blow 4 at once?"
    The post, you idiot. Besides 'im gonna eat cookies cookie' isn't remotely sexual, I was talking about cookies. Now the other one I did on purpose.
    Now not even admitting your fault??
    Still trying to dodge it?

    So according to you, one can find if a person is male or female by eating ACTUAL BAKED COOKIE of that said person?

    How delusional you want to be?
    You know it, I know it, everyone know it what you meant by expressing your desires of "eating cookie's cookie"

    Plus you also called me idiot
    You'd like if I use some words of mine? Or you'd make another post about it? 😃





    Also, your claim doesn't hold any actual evidence of me being sexual: you're just adding sh#$it in order to make you seem superior. Eating A COOKIE has nothing to do with sex. You're dirty minded.
    Why ofc,
    Now after being labelled as an idiot by you, now I'm being labelled as dirty minded also.

    Fun, how you'd like if I label you something as well?
    But I won't do that because I know I'm better than that.
    So you're not even denying the fact you tried to make it seem dirty? What the hell?
  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73
    kvirr said:

    PT_99 said:

    PT_99 said:

    kvirr said:

    PT_99 said:

    As suggested by @Darkclaw01

    OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

    But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

    That's next level of victim behaviour.

    Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
    Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting
    It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?
    What heat of moment make a person say, "I'm going to eat cookie's cookie." Or how you "love to blow 4 at once?"
    The post, you idiot. Besides 'im gonna eat cookies cookie' isn't remotely sexual, I was talking about cookies. Now the other one I did on purpose.
    Now not even admitting your fault??
    Still trying to dodge it?

    So according to you, one can find if a person is male or female by eating ACTUAL BAKED COOKIE of that said person?

    How delusional you want to be?
    You know it, I know it, everyone know it what you meant by expressing your desires of "eating cookie's cookie"

    Plus you also called me idiot
    You'd like if I use some words of mine? Or you'd make another post about it? 😃





    Also, your claim doesn't hold any actual evidence of me being sexual: you're just adding sh#$it in order to make you seem superior. Eating A COOKIE has nothing to do with sex. You're dirty minded.
    Actually yes it does, it’s slang for a woman’s private, which you would know if you would read what I said a bit ago.

    ok let’s say it didn’t have any sexual reference, tell us OP, what did you mean?

    I meant what I meant. I wanted to eat ***a cookie***. It's not that deep. What do you want me to say, I wanted to eat her out? Hell no. I don't even like men, nor do I like women. That's the most outlandish **** I've ever heard.
  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73
    And before you can say I'm now adding more things that don't need to be added, it is 100% necessary because y'all are some dirty minded freaks.
  • TheD0C_Of_NegativesTheD0C_Of_Negatives Member Posts: 73

    PT_99 said:

    PT_99 said:

    kvirr said:

    PT_99 said:

    As suggested by @Darkclaw01

    OP you should be disgusted and ashamed of not only using sexuality infused talk on other player who not only is unknown to you but also can be a minor who was only trying to play the game,

    But you also have no shame to come here and falsely frame other's words which you forcefully tried to extract?

    That's next level of victim behaviour.

    Excuse me? Victim Behavior? Man, I don't care if it seems like victim behavior. I, as a person, was trying to report an issue most people wouldn't have. I didn't try to extract anything, and you don't even know half of what happened. You're throwing around accusations before you even know what fully happened. For context, @55hole, I was talking to a friend of mine in global, who asked what my gender was before they addressed me. So don't get things twisted. As for being ashamed, I'm not. I'm not gonna be ashamed for something as ridiculous as this.
    Most people wouldn’t have to report this issue because they wouldn’t do things the way you did. And you DID try to extract things by taking what you said and what really happened out of context, and warping it to how you see fit, and whether it’s a friend or a loved one. I’m so glad someone was watching and caught screenshots. Made this so much more interesting
    It was in the heat of the moment and it had just happened. So why are you getting mad at ME, and not the other guy?
    What heat of moment make a person say, "I'm going to eat cookie's cookie." Or how you "love to blow 4 at once?"
    The post, you idiot. Besides 'im gonna eat cookies cookie' isn't remotely sexual, I was talking about cookies. Now the other one I did on purpose.
    Now not even admitting your fault??
    Still trying to dodge it?

    So according to you, one can find if a person is male or female by eating ACTUAL BAKED COOKIE of that said person?

    How delusional you want to be?
    You know it, I know it, everyone know it what you meant by expressing your desires of "eating cookie's cookie"

    Plus you also called me idiot
    You'd like if I use some words of mine? Or you'd make another post about it? 😃





    Also, your claim doesn't hold any actual evidence of me being sexual: you're just adding sh#$it in order to make you seem superior. Eating A COOKIE has nothing to do with sex. You're dirty minded.
    You aren't helping your case by being rude to people on the forums! If it weren't for the screenshots, Im sure this thread would be completely different! I am not trying to prove that what I said isn't wrong, but you trying to say that your blatant @sexual remarks aren't that is absurd. If it's at all possible that 1). Kabam can check chat logs, and 2). Post them in this thread, the story you're telling will become a lot more clear.

    Regardless of who you were talking to, you openly announced your preferences on the internet and majority of the time brings exchanges exactly like ours. I will hold myself fully accountable of what I said to you, now will you hold yourself 100% account about the actual meaning behind those messages, and the story your trying to tell.
    Oh, so now you're here? LOL. The man himself!
  • GroundedWisdomGroundedWisdom Member Posts: 36,770 ★★★★★
    Folkvangr said:

    Right. So don't talk about it? So if someone asks if you're a boy or a girl, that's acceptable to answer, but not if you're Trans. Is that the idea?

    If someone asks me in a game chat my gender, I would ignore it and move on, and im pretty sure most people would do the same
    That's certainly a choice you can make, and it's definitely a red flag, but my point was it should be just as acceptable to say you're Trans as it is Male/Female.
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