How does it feel to just one day suddenly to get kicked from your alliance?

HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
in General Discussion
So i just got kicked from my alliance(joined it almost 2 weeks ago), no warning and not even telling me exactly why i was kicked on their part and because it happened so suddenly i just feel so frustrated.
they even replaced me the moment i was kicked and that made me feel bitter and that felt fast. The worst part is having to wake up to feel this bitterness.
I just wanted to stay there for 2 months
Even if i came back there, the damage was already done...
So, how did you felt about this kind of an event in your life as a summoner?
p.s no hard feelings on anyone i just don't care anymore after writing this
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  • PikoluPikolu Member, Guardian Posts: 7,778 Guardian
    edited April 2023
    At least they waited for AQ rewards to be sent out and you have plenty of time to get in before AW season 5 war cutoff. Sucks you're going to miss out on alliance BG rank rewards though.
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    I managed to find out why i was kicked from the alliance. Turns out people there were complaining how unactive i was there BEHIND MY BACK!!!
    They could have told me about it but didn't and kicked me for a seemingly more active player than me, i'm just going to not join any alliance with people in it anymore because of how shallow those people trust in me is that they don't speak out their mind about me
    I know not all people are like that but i don't want to deal with alliance issues anymore because of screwing me over
  • Colinwhitworth69Colinwhitworth69 Member Posts: 7,470 ★★★★★
    As an alliance leader, I feel it is important to let new players know any rules and consequences, so they can decide whether to join.

    So, on the flip side, when considering an alliance, ask questions: Do you randomly kick people? What do I need to do to stay in the alliance? Is this alliance ambitious or chill? AW required? etc. make sure it is a good fit and hope the alliance officer is being honest. Good luck. (We have an opening btw, chill AQ only alliance mid tier)
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    Colinwhitworth69 said:

    As an alliance leader, I feel it is important to let new players know any rules and consequences, so they can decide whether to join.

    So, on the flip side, when considering an alliance, ask questions: Do you randomly kick people? What do I need to do to stay in the alliance? Is this alliance ambitious or chill? AW required? etc. make sure it is a good fit and hope the alliance officer is being honest. Good luck. (We have an opening btw, chill AQ only alliance mid tier)

    Thanks for the advice and offer but after this experience i just won't be able to join an alliance any time soon. That alliance i was kicked from i planned to stay there till the end of may because after that i won't be able to play the game anymore
    I just wanted to get resources to develop my account and reach Paragon before i won't be able to play anymore for a couple of years
  • ChiiccChiicc Member Posts: 186 ★
    As for the account that immediately joined after you were removed how do you know they are not active? Lmao just **** stories man that’s not even possible and it wasn’t some random it was second account that’s why it was in so fast. You were booted and second account was put in so we weren’t short.not some random ‘less active’ as you claim aq ends you’re booted someone else added immediately and you can know if someone’s less active within a few hours how exactly? You a mind reader magician. Embarrassing
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    Honestly i never meant to harm anyone as well as insult anyone. I joined aq and tries my best to do stuff but most of it are complete after i wake up in the morning in my time zone. How would i know if ithe account is active or not? Since you told me it's active i figured it was more active than me since it could have a better time zone fit to the alliance than me.
    And i never lied i woke up to me getting kicked and you think i should know why i got kicked. You never even gave me a clear warning to getting kicked not just rules
  • Denzel116Denzel116 Member Posts: 537 ★★★
    No but really…it’s just a whole bunch of ones and zeros. A digital hobby. Not trying to be crass. But I promise there are more pressing things to feel frustrated about.

    Plus there are countless alliances. Find one with mature, realistic members.
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    Chiicc said:

    As for the account that immediately joined after you were removed how do you know they are not active? Lmao just **** stories man that’s not even possible and it wasn’t some random it was second account that’s why it was in so fast. You were booted and second account was put in so we weren’t short.not some random ‘less active’ as you claim aq ends you’re booted someone else added immediately and you can know if someone’s less active within a few hours how exactly? You a mind reader magician. Embarrassing

    Those are things seen from my perspective and you accuse me of lying and i never said less active
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    You said there are rules that i need to be active in aq and i was, there wasn't a specific amount to how much active i can be and there wasn't a chance for me to be more active because others already cleared most of it by the time i was up. I even had my time zone in my name on the chat we spoke on and you could have searched and figured it out how much time difference there is as well as not letting me in your alliance because of the time zone. You missed important details as much as you claim i had and instead of telling me my faults and figuring out what to do you just decided to kick me because i wasn't active enough anyways without warning
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    Both of us have our faults and enough was said.
  • XFREEDOMXXFREEDOMX Member Posts: 525 ★★★
    Not gonna lie but 95% of the people get kicked because of their inactivity. If you are a chilled player then just find a chilled alliance super simple. I rarely seen someone who followed alliance rules yet still get kicked.
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    XFREEDOMX said:

    Not gonna lie but 95% of the people get kicked because of their inactivity. If you are a chilled player then just find a chilled alliance super simple. I rarely seen someone who followed alliance rules yet still get kicked.

    Honestly i'm done
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    Please close this discussion
  • pseudosanepseudosane Member, Guardian Posts: 3,992 Guardian
    to be fair, if you were inactive in alliance modes, what did you expect?
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    pseudosane said:

    to be fair, if you were inactive in alliance modes, what did you expect?

    That's the issue, i was and i still got kicked XD
    That's why you should go even further in detail and make sure they CAN be active
  • pseudosanepseudosane Member, Guardian Posts: 3,992 Guardian
    HSS75 said:

    pseudosane said:

    to be fair, if you were inactive in alliance modes, what did you expect?

    That's the issue, i was and i still got kicked XD
    goes to show there's a number to the term active
    after reading your officer/leaders remarks, he would be fair to remove you if you weren't contributing. Sorry mate, you may have to find something more your speed.
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    pseudosane said:

    HSS75 said:

    pseudosane said:

    to be fair, if you were inactive in alliance modes, what did you expect?

    That's the issue, i was and i still got kicked XD
    goes to show there's a number to the term active
    after reading your officer/leaders remarks, he would be fair to remove you if you weren't contributing. Sorry mate, you may have to find something more your speed.
    I was ,tried to.. what would you do if they clear it earlier than you, while i was sleeping they were clearing it and i don't plan on skipping sleep
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    pseudosane said:

    HSS75 said:

    pseudosane said:

    to be fair, if you were inactive in alliance modes, what did you expect?

    That's the issue, i was and i still got kicked XD
    goes to show there's a number to the term active
    after reading your officer/leaders remarks, he would be fair to remove you if you weren't contributing. Sorry mate, you may have to find something more your speed.
    Honestly, they could have told me in private to do better the next aq but they didn't , they just don't say a word to me and don't bother asking me
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    How would i know how much active they wanted me to be? i only got to be in 2 rounds of aq
  • RonSwansonRonSwanson Member Posts: 1,171 ★★★★
    You're only making yourself look worse here, just stop already
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    Oh
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    Okay
  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    RonSwanson said:

    You're only making yourself look worse here, just stop already

  • HSS75HSS75 Member Posts: 1,161 ★★★
    edited April 2023
    HSS75 said:

    Please close this discussion

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  • ChatterofforumsChatterofforums Member Posts: 1,779 ★★★★★
    It's very clear what happened here and is rather common. You weren't very active and contributing far less than the average member while going for easy rewards. You wanted to stay there longer because you were getting decent rewards primarily based on others effort.

    They found a suitable replacement (it's horrible idea to boot even a barely active person without a replacement ready) and replaced you as soon as the replacement was available (likely after he got his rewards from AQ and was ready to leave his alliance).
  • TheWatcher_TheWatcher_ Member Posts: 153 ★
    It's the worst for me. I just question myself "what did I do?"
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